To some, she’s Auntie Flo
because she comes with an associated flow. To others, she’s simply Auntie Rose because
they see red whenever she shows up. Rose draws its origins from Rossa, Italian
for red. We’re talking menstrual periods, many a woman’s worst nightmare.
First-time and regular episodes
alike continue to present varied experiences. From mild pain to excruciating
cramps, they’ve experienced it all. To some, it’s first time freaky before it transitions
into something they gradually get used to. To others, its a lifetime of recurrent
anguish that only ebbs at the dawn of menopause, all of 25+ years later.
The onset of one’s menstrual
period is often preceded by PMS (Pre-Menstrual Syndrome), a collective term
that describes the physical and psychological distress that afflicts some,
right before and during their menstrual periods.
Physical symptoms may include
conditions like weight gain, bloating, dizziness and mild headaches among
others. Emotional symptoms, on the other hand, include conditions such as loss
of concentration, insomnia, mood swings and irregular sex patterns.
How would the average female manage
their menstrual hygiene, one will ask? Whereas some get the hang of the burden, many continue to struggle. From over-the-counter medication to exercise, rest and diet, among others, countless remedies have been explored.
I spoke to a close confidant, a daughter of Eve I’ll call Jessie.
I spoke to a close confidant, a daughter of Eve I’ll call Jessie.
Exercise: Moderate aerobic
exercises like walking or light jogging help to reduce bloating and the pain of
cramping. They improve one’s blood circulation and trigger the release of
endorphins, sometimes called “feel-good hormones”, largely because of their ability
to ease pain or stress.
Hot baths are a form of heat
therapy. They work by relaxing the uterine muscles, increasing blood flow and easing
or relieving menstrual pain.
Orgasms: Having an orgasm
helps to release endorphins, and these come with several benefits as already
highlighted.
Enough rest, particularly in foetal
position, takes pressure off the abdominal muscles which, in turn, help to
relieve cramps. In this position, the skeletal muscles around the abdomen relax,
lessening abdominal tension in the process.
Diet: Healthy foods and
vegetables such as carrots, fruits and foods rich in zinc – such as pumpkin
seeds help to relax body muscles. They reduce the production of certain glands
that, in the long run, help to ease the cramping. In some experiences, she
says, foods such as ginger have been found to be as effective as ibuprofen in
relieving menstrual cramps.
Over-the-counter medication:
Often the last resort unless advised by one’s doctor, this should be resorted
to when PMS conditions appear severe.
At the onset of PMS, it’s best
to deal with the obvious symptoms. Menstrual flow is heaviest during the first
days of one’s cycle. At this stage, one will need the right pads to avoid
potential public embarrassment and the resulting stigma.
Brands like Afripads have
menstrual kits that have varying absorption rates – Maxi (light) and Super Maxi
(heavy). Had troublesome periods before? Tell your tale, and let the world
learn a thing or two!